Thursday, February 23, 2012

From Dead Poet's society

My two favorite lines of the movie:

Show me the heart unfettered by foolish dreams,
and I'll show you a happy man.

But only in their dreams can man be truly free.
'Twas always thus, and always thus will be.

xoxo
The Rambler

From Vernon God Little

" I sense a learning: that much dumber people than you end up in charge. Look at the way things are. I'm no fucken genius or anything, but these spazzos are in charge of my every twitch. What I'm starting to think is maybe only the dumb are safe in this world, the ones who roam with the herd, without thinking about every little thing. But see me? I have to think about every little fucken thing. "

xoxo
The Rambler

The mind

Let the mind not be burdened, let it think and see
Let it discriminate by its wishes, see it be free
Let it be representative of you, your being, your soul
Let it be a part of you, let it be your whole.

xoxo
The Rambler

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Poetry of the Samurai

Poetry of the Samurai:

'via Blog this'


My favorite:
Death poems
are mere delusion-
death is death.

xoxo
The Rambler

Simply being Calvin

I can't get enough of them.
Off to read more Calvin and Hobbes
xoxo
The Rambler

Saturday, February 18, 2012

So true

It is hard enough to remember my opinions, without also remembering my reasons for them!

Friedrich Nietzsche

xoxo
The Rambler

MIKA - Happy Ending (Long Version) - YouTube

MIKA - Happy Ending (Long Version) - YouTube:

'via Blog this'

One of my favorite songs!
Listening to it on a saturday morning when in fact I should be working.
xoxo
The Rambler

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Divorces and Independence


http://www.indiauncut.com/iublog/article/we-should-celebrate-rising-divorce-rates/

What utter bullshit. Excuse my language, but as a female, who believes she is strongly independent, I am mighty well offended by this absolutely nonsensical measure of my independence.
More broken homes is not something that we should celebrate. If you are so independent. don't marry in the first place. Or at least find out about the guy you are marrying. Do a background check. We have enough jobless PIs for that. If he is a jerk after marriage, there is a high probability that he was one before marriage too.
While I am not for or against marriage or believe in the sanctum sanctorum of marriage, I just feel that feminism does not need bullshit like this. If you want to celebrate the independence of women, look at their achievements in politics, education, etc and not just how many divorces they have had. Divorces is something quite unfortunate that any family for that matter could be subject to. And celebrating something like this just reeks of immaturity. 
People blame it on the so called system of arranged marriages in India. But, arranged marriages have the lowest rate of failure. Trust me, they are a good thing.
Also, if the woman is independent enough, she would say no before entering the marriage and not after committing to the marriage. I mean, any independent woman is smart enough to figure out during her engagement or courtship period whether she wants to be with him or not. If you can't have a conversation for more than 5 minutes, I think that's pretty much the red danger sign that the couples counselor would tell you about.  I am telling you about it for free. While we have a higher rate of divorces, we also do have higher engagement periods. So, why should it be so hard to figure out that you are not made for each other.
And you would know if you had an abusive boyfriend. There's no getting past that. You need to be either senseless or completely stupid to not see an abusive partner. And there aren't so many people with CIPA. I think. 
And for those of you who talk about compromising, you compromise with a lot of things. do you give all those things up? A lot more people would be without jobs if everyone stopped compromising. Just saying.
And like everything else, marriage needs work. If you think its as easy as eating cake, well then everyone is better off eating cake and not being married.
Anyway, I think the guy's talking bull. And since he's a writer for TOI, DEFINITELY bull. I am off to stare at the snowflakes
Toodles
xoxo
The Rambler

Valentine's Day: Date a man from the Far East as they spend the most on jewellery | Mail Online

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Not Fade Away: Against the Myth of American Decline - Brookings Institution

I didn't know there were so many poems on food

One of my favorite poems of all times

Aedh wishes for the Cloths of Heaven

Had I the heavens’ embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

William butler yeats

Somehow seemed perfect for the first snow
xoxo
The Rambler